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    • #4057
      Alina Frank
      Keymaster

      What have you been able to identify as a fear or cloggers?
      Remember to write them down so they don’t fester in your head!

      You also get a journal to track your potential partners at the end of this program. Please send me your mailing address.

      If you want to be a tapping demo please get in touch with me at alina@efttappingtraining.com

    • #4060
      Ronald Bonk
      Participant

      I enjoyed the first module.

      FEARS:
      1. Since my recent break-up came as a shock and felt like having a rug pulled out from under me, I fear I may never be able to trust so completely again.
      2. Growing old alone.
      3. I know we are all works in progress, but there is a fear of someone seeing me as I am with all my faults. These faults include looks, body type and finances. I thought my ex was OK with these faults but in the end he suddenly wasn’t.

      CLOGGERS:
      1. My best friend Mark is also a mature single gay man who keeps telling me “There are no decent people out there to date!”
      2. Understanding the fine line between “healthy boundaries” and “being controlling” which played a part in collapse of the last relationship. I keep hearing we want to make sure our partner is as happy as possible but what if doing so will make us unhappy.
      3. Self-esteem. I am haunted by the question: “Was I a good partner in the last relationship?”

      • #4062
        CArRiE
        Keymaster

        Thank you Ron for being willing to share your fears and channel cloggers. I hope you will be able to attend the LIVE EFT Module (#3) where we will be tapping on some of these types of issues.

      • #4068
        Alina Frank
        Keymaster

        Thanks for being vulnerable here, Ron! That sort of openness will serve you well in your future earthmate/soulmate union!

    • #4065
      Anna Betel
      Participant

      Is stress a channel clogger? Like the stress around parenting? Or is that a fear – ie – I don’t have enough time for a relationship?

      • #4066
        Alina Frank
        Keymaster

        Hi Anna, Yes can be! Ask yourself how the stress of those things prevent you from feeling more hopeful or prevent you from doing things you know will make you more hopeful. All fears are cloggers not all cloggers are fears. An example of a clogger that’s not a fear is spending a lot of time with a ex. I have a relative who took this course a while back and they are blind to the fact that they spend all the time with their ex and even live next door to them, travel with them etc. Not my place to point that out – cus, you know, they are family! Hope this helps

      • #4067
        Alina Frank
        Keymaster

        Hi Anna, Yes can be! Ask yourself how the stress of those things prevent you from feeling more hopeful or prevent you from doing things you know will make you more hopeful. All fears are cloggers not all cloggers are fears. An example of a clogger that’s not a fear is spending a lot of time with a ex. I have a relative who took this course a while back and they are blind to the fact that they spend all the time with their ex and even live next door to them, travel with them etc. Not my place to point that out – cus, you know, they are family! Hope this helps

    • #4076
      Carla Erlandson
      Participant

      So… I assume this is where we are supposed to put our MateVision? Here goes…

      ” The man I will spend the rest of my life with loves nature and animals. He is considerate and understanding of others and their needs. He is honest in his speech & dealings with others and he is wise intellectually, emotionally and financially.

      • #4077
        CArRiE
        Keymaster

        Hi Carla,

        Yes, this is a great spot to post your Mate Vision. Thank you for sharing it!

      • #4078
        Alina Frank
        Keymaster

        Great job, Carla! Thank you for sharing!

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